If you have answered yes to some or all of the above questions you may be suffering with depression
"Depression cannot be described any longer as a simple disorder of the brain" - UK Institute of Psychiatry
If you are experiencing any of the above, you are certainly not alone. Practically everyone feels 'depressed' at some point in their lives and, according to research, seven to twelve per cent of men suffer from diagnosable depression and twenty to twenty five per cent of women.
The causes of depression are varied. It could be a reaction to a traumatic event, the death of your partner or job loss. It might be that it is difficult to ask for or get needs met in relationships. It may also be caused by a combination of stressful events both at work and at home.
One of the reasons that the percentage is higher for women is because of postnatal depression. Many women suffer from this shortly after giving birth and the symptoms are similar to those of other types of depression. Post natal depression can range from very mild baby blues which lasts a few days to a much more severe depression known as puerperal psychosis.
However it has been argued that men have tended to express their symptoms differently, for example, through the use of alcohol and drugs, and have been unwilling to admit to the symptoms of depression.
More recent studies have shown that depression does occur as often in men.
It may seem to the sufferer that their situation is hopeless, and unfortunately this is backed up by the many myths about depression in our society. Statements such as, "it's a chemical imbalance in the brain" or "once you've got depression, you've got it for life." are not only unhelpful they are untrue. In fact all types of depression are highly treatable.
While everyone's experience is different, many people are finding counselling or psychotherapy the way forward.
The model of Counselling and Psychotherapy I use is called Transactional Analysis (T.A) and is used in many companies, schools, colleges and groups as well as clinically. Counselling and psychotherapy give you a chance, in a safe and supportive environment, to try out different ways of thinking, feeling or behaving rather than merely treating the symptoms of depression.
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